Archive | January, 2012

Eliminate Public Speaking Fear

Seinfeld once said that most people would rather be in the casket at a funeral than giving the eulogy, so if you fear public speaking you are not alone.  Memories often play a vital role in fears like this.  Consider this.  You want to be able to give a speech in public but every time [...]

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Don’t Settle

Have you ever wanted something so bad you just couldn’t stop thinking about it?  Did you get it?  Or did you settle?  For less?  Don’t settle.  Don’t settle for less than truly want.  You don’t have to. When I decided to buy my first house some years ago, I had a particular type of house [...]

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Give Stress the Flick

You’ve probably all heard the statement that stress is a silent killer, but do we really understand how stress can kill us?  I was completely unaware of the mechanism until I became familiar with the subject of Psychoneuroimmunology or PNI for short, which I discovered as a result of my Matrix Reimprinting training. Every time [...]

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You Can Change the Past

An unhappy childhood is a breeding ground for mental and emotional dysfunction as well as ill health.  I know this first hand because my childhood was a walking nightmare and I  spent years working to recover from it.    Matrix Reimprinting is a cutting edge Energy Tapping Therapy developed by Karl Dawson and Sasha Allenby, [...]

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Chronic Issues Can Never be Resolved Unless

If you’ve ever had a chronic issue then you know frustrating they can be. Yesterday I was reading a blog written by someone I know about two chronic issues she recognised in herself, perfectionism and an inner conflict.  It just so happens that I have written blogs on both these issues in the last two weeks.  [...]

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Someone Pushing Your Buttons?

Imagine what the world would be like if we could get people to change their minds about other people quite quickly and very easily? It is possible now with an advanced technique based on the energy system instead of the troublesome conscious mind. This technique has changed my mind from the angry, resentful, unhappy state [...]

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There’s No Such Thing as Self Sabotage

I have heard many people say, ‘I know I’m sabotaging myself by eating this chocolate, but I can’t stop.’  The Webster Dictionary defines sabotage as an act or process tending to hamper or hurt or deliberate subversion.  We tend to think of self sabotage as engaging in an action that is not in our own [...]

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You Can’t Build Self Confidence

You can’t build self confidence by listening to tapes  or repeating affirmations.  Self confidence isn’t something you can build, it is something you possess.  It is not something you can acquire like a new car or bigger muscles.  Self confidence is an intrinsic quality.  It can’t be built like a house or a sandcastle, because [...]

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Overwhelm is Optional

As the world become a more complex place, many of us suffer with overwhelm.  The more active or creative the mind, the more overwhelm we usually have to deal with.  Although having a creative mind is certainly an asset, it has the potential to create problems that can immobilize us.  I have discovered that overwhelm, [...]

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Can a Leopard Change It’s Spots?

When we state “A leopard doesn’t change its’ spots” what we usually mean is that we don’t believe that people can change, not in any real or significant way.  The question that I am posing asks you to consider whether or not it is possible for people to change enough so as we’d notice. The [...]

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